CERTIFIED COACH | SPEAKER | CLINICAL HYPNOTHERAPIST | EFT | NLP | TIME TECHNIQUE PRACTITIONER
Hey you, I'm Amy
a transformational confidence and empowerment coach, helping women going through divorce or separation who struggle with feeling out of control, lost, fearful of the future and unconfident to support them to a happy, single life they revel in.
I support women to reach a place where you can process what has happened and go from wondering ''how am I going to do this'', ''what will my life look like now'', ''am I ever going to be able to start over'' or ''will I make the same mistakes in future'' to owning your power, feeling worthy and self-confident in your new, incredible chapter of life.
Whether you are someone who is going through divorce or separation and feels like life as you know it is over and you have no control or self confidence in what to do next. Or you're already divorced/separated and find yourself scared of being alone, fearful of making the same mistakes, or like you aren't doing as well as people may think. My hope is that you leave our sessions feeling supported, in control, worthy and complete just as you are, with a game plan to not only get you through your divorce/separation but find your incredible new life at the end of the tunnel.
Why can I do this? Because I was you.
What got me here
Growing up I put a lot of pressure on myself to succeed. I was also desperate to be liked, and even more desperate to be loved.
I worked hard, got good grades, went to University, got a solid corporate job and travelled and lived abroad for many years. Ticking all the boxes I had set myself as goals in my life by the time i was 30. However, no matter what I did I never felt good enough.
Whilst, on paper, this life was my dream, in my personal life I was always putting up with being treated poorly. I now understand that this was because deep down I didn't feel worthy enough to be treated well. I constantly worried whether people liked me, and focused far too little on whether I liked them.
Years of being treated in unacceptable ways by men culminated in my discovery that my husband had been cheating on me. This was my rock bottom. Everything I thought I knew to be true was no longer. I left what I thought would be forever.
I had to rebuild my life from scratch, whilst feeling empty, hollow, betrayed, devastated and alone. Leaving my husband, even though he had treated me so badly, still felt like leaving something 'safe' and 'secure' as I so badly did not want to be alone. When I look back, I can see that the person I married was made up in my head, and in reality he was never that partner. My entire life I had dated people's potential, rather than who they truly were.
Today I sit here and tell you how extremely grateful I am that I found out my husband cheated on me. It brought me to where I am today. I moved to a new town, healed myself and finally found the freedom, confidence and worthiness I had been missing my entire life.
Once I found my confidence my entire world changed. I invested in myself through meditation, support from professionals, listening to my gut instincts when dating and found I was not only happy being single, but thriving. For the first time in my life I no longer needed to be with with a partner to feel complete. I completed my MBA and became a certified coach and clinical hypnotherapist to help other women recover and thrive after divorce or separation. I went from feeling unworthy, scared, lonely, anxious and powerless to in control, confident, travelling the world alone, owning my choices, and living my life unapologetically for me.
My experience taught me a great deal, and I wish I had the opportunity to have a coach during my divorce. I am truly passionate about supporting clients to break free of self doubt and negative cyclical thinking to regain confidence, trust yourself and find the freedom to own your new, incredible, independent life.
The light is at the end of the tunnel.